if you love someone...

if you love someone, let them go. if they dont come back to you, they were never yours to begin with....

how do you know that's true? if you really love someone, why would you let them go? shouldn't you fight for what you want? and how do you know when when something is worth fighthing for and when its not?everyone knows the feeling of love. we love our families, we love our friends, we love our significant others, we love ourselves. but how do you know when you love someone so much that you shouldn't let them leave your life?

to find a friend, a real true friend, is something special. you learn to love them and that is a bond that won't be broken by distance or time. a real friend is someone you should fight for, someone you shouldn't let go. family is the same. but you are already connected by love to your family when you're born. distance and time shouldn't matter with them either. but that doesn't mean you can let them go without a fight.

but how do you know when you should fight to keep the boy or girl you love? how do you decided when too far is too far, and when you should just. let. go. of course you have to let go to move on. but how do you know who to move on from and who to keep in your heart? i guess it depends on how you look at it, and what your feelings are about fate, or free will. if you belive in fate, you will say that you should let them go, and that if you are meant to come back to eachother you will. free will would say that its your choice, and that they way you react, or dont react, will decide what happens.

in my case, i love him. and i because of that, i will let him go. its impossible to hold onto someone who doesn't want to be held. if he wants to come back, he'll know where i am. until then i just live with the belief that whats meant to be will always find a way, and that if he never comes back, he was never mine in the first place...